extra-martial affairs...

Today's questions comes via AIM from a good friend of mine. He asks:

If you were married to a professional athlete and he was on the road for half the year, and with groupies and temptations everywhere, would you let him sleep with women on the road? I'm asking b/c there's this woman that's married to an NBA player and she allows him 1 encounter on the road each season.

Yours,

Pablo Boner


Pablo,

This is a most interesting questions that certainly has a lot of variables to consider. It would really depend on the type of relationship I had with my husband. Now personally I do not share well with others and have a tendency toward jealousy and guilt (it's the Jew in me). I think even if I had my hubby's permission to sleep with someone else I would feel so overwhelming guilty I wouldn't be able to enjoy the act. Now I would hope my husband would feel the same way, but he's a man so that's out of the question. No, in fact I would feel betrayed if he cheated on me with some groupie. Plus, if he's a professional sports player doesn't he make enough money to fly me out to wherever he is for a quickie?

Kiss kiss,

Fab

POEM DAY!!

This just popped into my head and I thought I would share




Oh low swinging, my love
toes to the sky.
Hair in the wind, you move my way.
Twist your chains around mine and we spin
and spin and spin.
Whirling until the earth won't stop, breath won't catch.
We laugh.


Fab.